Embracing God’s Guidance in Marriage

Have you ever found yourself tempted to flee from your marriage? Perhaps you’ve faced challenges that seem insurmountable, or you’ve been hurt by your spouse’s actions. As Christians, it’s essential to recognize that running from our marriage is akin to running from God Himself. There is a profound connection between our commitment to marriage and our relationship with God.

Consider the story of Jonah. When God called Jonah to go to Nineveh and preach against its wickedness, Jonah’s instinct was to flee. He thought he could escape God’s call, much like we sometimes believe we can escape the challenges of our marriages. But just as God pursued Jonah, He also pursues us in our marriages, urging us to confront our difficulties rather than run from them (Jonah 1:3).

Running from our marriages may seem like a temporary relief, but in reality, it only leads to further strife. God sees through our excuses and understands the depths of our struggles. He doesn’t want us to run; He wants us to lean on Him for strength and guidance.

Marriage holds profound significance in God’s eyes. It’s one of the foundational institutions established by Him (Genesis 2:24). Therefore, when we face difficulties in our marriages, we must remember that God is invested in our relationships and wants to see them thrive.

Running from our marriages often feels like the easier path, especially when faced with betrayal, conflict, or dissatisfaction. However, God calls us to embrace Him in the midst of our struggles. When we allow God into our marriages, He can work miracles that we never thought possible.

Jonah eventually heeded God’s call, and when he did, God was with him every step of the way (Jonah 3:3). Similarly, when we stop running from our marriages and invite God into our hearts, He becomes our constant companion, guiding us through the challenges and helping us become better spouses.

So, if you find yourself tempted to run from your marriage, remember that God is calling you to stay and fight. Don’t listen to the voice of the enemy encouraging you to flee; instead, open your arms to God’s love and allow Him to work miracles in your marriage.

Let’s pray: Heavenly Father, help us to resist the urge to run from our marriages when faced with challenges. Instead, grant us the strength to lean on You for guidance and support. May Your presence be felt in our relationships, leading us to reconciliation, growth, and love. In Jesus’ name we pray, Amen.