Overcoming Self-Centeredness in Marriage

Scripture:

Philippians 2:3-4
“Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.”

In the sacred union of marriage, the journey of two becoming one can often be hindered by the human trait of self-centeredness. It is instinctive to prioritize our own desires and interests, yet for a marriage to thrive, this instinct must be managed and transformed.

Today, ponder upon the value of placing your spouse’s desires and interests above your own. This does not mean neglecting your well-being but fostering a deep-seated generosity of spirit that celebrates and elevates your spouse’s needs alongside, or even above, your own.

Commit to daily time with the Lord through His Word and prayer. It is in these quiet moments with God that our hearts are shaped and our spirits are tuned to the frequency of His love and humility. As you draw closer to Him and let His Word penetrate your heart, you will find that the ability to prioritize your spouse’s happiness becomes more natural.

Prayer:
Lord, help me to see my spouse through Your eyes, valuing their happiness as much as my own. Teach me to be humble and to put aside selfish ambitions, focusing instead on building a marriage that glorifies You. Guide us both to serve one another in love, reflecting Your grace and kindness. Amen.

As you contemplate these thoughts throughout your day, remember that every effort you make towards nurturing your relationship is a step towards a more loving and unified marriage.